フランスでは1999年から、結婚より緩やかな法律的関係である「PACS（民事連帯契約法）」が制定されている。これは婚姻や離婚に関して厳しい法律的制約のあるフランスだからこそ設けられたとも言える法律だが、「PACS」に関して、日本の未婚者たちはどういった感想を持っているのだろうか。
ポジティブな意見は、「婚姻に対する法的関係の複線化は、選択肢が増えていいのではないでしょうか」（44歳男性）、「日本の結婚は重苦しいイメージがあ るので、そういうのも良いと思う」（27歳男性）、「男女の結び付きは結婚が最終形ではないと思うのでいろんな形があっていいし国も認めていく方向性を考 えてほしい」（44歳男性）、「結婚という枠にとらわれなくていい」（30歳女性）、「柔軟な考え方で良いと思います。お互いの関係がきちんとしていれば 問題なし！」（26歳女性）など。
実際に結婚の意義と価値を教える人がいないんでしょうね。本来は親が教えてあげるべきでしょうが、親自身、結婚する意味や価値を知らないいんですからどうしようもありませんね。
家庭が崩壊すれば社会も必然的に崩壊していくでしょうね。そして国も消滅していくでしょうね。遠い将来かも知れませんが、このままいけば確実に日本民族は消滅していく運命の道に突き進んでいくでしょうね。人生には三大疑問が常につきまとっています。起源(私はどこから来たのか?)・目的(私は何をすべきなのか?)そして、最終的にどこにいくのか？(死後の世界)でしょうかね。それを明確に分かり易く教えてくれた人は未だいません。その意味からも、人生の三大疑問に明確に解答を与え、結婚の意義と価値・人生の目的等を明確に示せる人が必要でしょうね。
人は結婚して一人前です。人という中には男性はもちろん女性までも含まれています。人生とは、男女が本然の愛を中心に一つになって歩んでいく結婚生活から始まります。それ以前は、純潔を守って一人の男として、一人の女として立派になることです。そして結婚していくのが本来の道でしょうね。そして、結婚後は互いに貞操を守っていくことでしょうね。
けれど、その根本となる愛が本然の愛からはかけ離れてしまっているんでしょうね。本然の愛は、今では母親と子どもの関係の中に僅かに垣間見ることができます。母親は、ただ一方的に愛を注いでいます。そして、子どもが喜んでいる姿が無情の喜びです。ですから、本当の愛は、愛してくださいと求める愛ではないんでしょうね。そう与えたいという思いでしょうね。 ですから、結婚も何故するのかといったら、相手を幸せにしてあげたいという気持ちからするもんであると思いますね。
その愛のあり方を明確に示せる人が、今人類にとって必要な時かもしれませんね。
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do not know the meaning of marriage," "I do not know the difference
between marriage and cohabitation," "life, or just a single." This "view of marriage," said the youth, seems to have been increasing recently. At age 50 was launched in 2010, "never married rate" was 19.4% in men and 9.8% for women (census). Age at first marriage is rising every year. In Japan, the increasingly late marriage or unmarried, "and the first full-fledged marriage values" that are becoming obsolete. Against
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In
France, since 1999, is a looser relationship between legal marriage
"PACS (Civil Solidarity Contract Law)" has been established. It
also said the law provided, but what of France's strict legal
restrictions in regard to marriage and divorce, "PACS" terms, the
Japanese who are unmarried or have to wonder what thoughts went.
Positive opinion "on the legal relationship of marriage double track, I think I have more options in" (44 year-old male), "Marriage in Japan because of heavy images, think of such good "(27 year-old male)," relationship between men and women in the final form of marriage is going the direction we want to recognize some countries there are various forms Iishi not think so "(44 year-old male)," the framework of marriage Torawarenaku to do it "(woman 30 years old)," I may be a flexible approach. no problem if they properly relate to each other "(female 26 years old), etc..I tell people I'm not a real value and meaning of marriage. Although I will increase our natural parents, their parents, I very disappointing from 知Rana the meaning and value do I get married.
It will inevitably continue to collapse if the collapse of the family community. I will continue to disappear and the country. Maybe too distant future, certainly if the trend continues the Japanese nation is in full fling I'll go the way of destiny will disappear. Life has been around for years in the three major questions. Origin (where I come from?) Purpose (Why should I do?) And I go where the final? (Afterlife), or I would. People told me it clearly is not yet clear. In this respect, and give a clear answer three major questions of life, I would like people need to demonstrate clearly the value and meaning of marriage's purpose in life.
People are full-fledged marriage. In a human male to female is of course also included. Life begins married life is going to walk around one of the inborn love of men and women. Earlier, a man who protects the chastity of women is to become a respectable person. I would go the natural way and married. And I would be going after marriage protects the chastity of one another.
But, from the love of their fundamental and innate love I would've been far from closed. Love is inborn, can now be glimpsed only in the relationship to mother and child. His mother has just pouring love unilateral. And that figure is bliss is happy with children. So, true love, in love and finding love is I will not no please. I'll give it a thought. So, why you went and got married, I think that the feeling is that to increase to mon happy person.
Clearly demonstrate the way people love it, I might when I needed to mankind.
Positive opinion "on the legal relationship of marriage double track, I think I have more options in" (44 year-old male), "Marriage in Japan because of heavy images, think of such good "(27 year-old male)," relationship between men and women in the final form of marriage is going the direction we want to recognize some countries there are various forms Iishi not think so "(44 year-old male)," the framework of marriage Torawarenaku to do it "(woman 30 years old)," I may be a flexible approach. no problem if they properly relate to each other "(female 26 years old), etc..I tell people I'm not a real value and meaning of marriage. Although I will increase our natural parents, their parents, I very disappointing from 知Rana the meaning and value do I get married.
It will inevitably continue to collapse if the collapse of the family community. I will continue to disappear and the country. Maybe too distant future, certainly if the trend continues the Japanese nation is in full fling I'll go the way of destiny will disappear. Life has been around for years in the three major questions. Origin (where I come from?) Purpose (Why should I do?) And I go where the final? (Afterlife), or I would. People told me it clearly is not yet clear. In this respect, and give a clear answer three major questions of life, I would like people need to demonstrate clearly the value and meaning of marriage's purpose in life.
People are full-fledged marriage. In a human male to female is of course also included. Life begins married life is going to walk around one of the inborn love of men and women. Earlier, a man who protects the chastity of women is to become a respectable person. I would go the natural way and married. And I would be going after marriage protects the chastity of one another.
But, from the love of their fundamental and innate love I would've been far from closed. Love is inborn, can now be glimpsed only in the relationship to mother and child. His mother has just pouring love unilateral. And that figure is bliss is happy with children. So, true love, in love and finding love is I will not no please. I'll give it a thought. So, why you went and got married, I think that the feeling is that to increase to mon happy person.
Clearly demonstrate the way people love it, I might when I needed to mankind.
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